Tag: Lifestyle

  • Sorry Guys

    Hey guys, how are you all doing? It has really been a while I published a post. I am so sorry for keeping you guys waiting. I missed you all so much.

    I have been so busy with work and family. I also lost my phone recently and my laptop is faulty.

    I’m back now, I promise to check out as many posts as I can and also check out the blogs of new followers.

    Thanks so much for understanding. I love you all.

  • Sunshine Blogger Award

    Wow!!! I can’t believe I have been nominated for yet another award. Thanks to the two darlings that nominated me; Xvenussx and Natural Muse, am so grateful.

    Xvenussx blog is about almost everything. Natural Muse blog is about lifestyle and natural hair care and tips. Both of them have amazing blog posts, please check them out, you won’t regret doing so.

    Here are the rules for this award:

    • Thank blogger(s) who nominated you in a blog post and link back to their blog.
    • Answer the 11 questions that the blogger asked you.
    • Nominate 11 blogs to receive the award and write them 11 new questions.
    • List the rules and display the sunshine blogger award logo in your post and/or on your blog.

    Xvenussx’s Questions

    1. Why did you start a blog? To encourage people to try natural alternatives to their hair, skin and health problems.
    2. What would be your passions? Watching movies, cooking, dancing, searching for information online.
    3. What are you looking for in a friendship? Understanding and trust.
    4. The best memory of your life would be? I don’t have a best memory yet, looking forward to it though.
    5. What gives you hope? God
    6. Is there any book/movie which changed your perspective? I used to think all romantic movies is all about lust, Korean and Indian dramas changed my view about that. It made me believe genuine love without lust is possible.
    7. Do you like history? I like bible history and also legendary movies such as Hercules.
    8. Is there an answer that you think humanity will never receive? Can’t think of any now.
    9. Do you usually trust people? I trust a lot and easily too, it hurts when someone breaks my trust.
    10. Would you rather live in the past, now (being the time you were born) or in the future? Now, because I believe God has a purpose for keeping me here this time.
    11. What do you think about science and technology? I think science has to do with nature and the universe while technology has to do with machinery and devices.

    Natural Muse’s Questions

    1. How do you spend your free time?I spend my free time watching movies or surfing the internet for information.
    2. Who do you most admire in life? My parents, they are always ready to help anyone, they are amazing.
    3.  What are you most afraid of? Death
    4.  What is your strongest personal quality? Forgiveness
    5. What are your top 3 favourite books and why? The Bible because it contains the truth and is the greatest of all books.
    6. What is a skill you’d like to learn?Hair styling
    7. How would your friends describe you? Crazy, naughty, troublemaker, bully (lol), kind, patient.
    8.  What genre of music do you listen you?? Anything that catch my attention, might be the beat or lyrics.
    9.  What cheers you up when you are down? Rewatching funny movie scenes.
    10. Which countries have you visited?Cotonou.
    11. If you would live in a book, TV show or movie, what would you be? Cinderella or Rapunzel

    My questions

    1. What or who is your source of inspiration?
    2. What personality trait do you dislike?
    3. Will you do anything to earn money?
    4. How do you feel and react when people talk down on you?
    5. Do you find it easy to please everyone?
    6. Which of your blog posts do you love most?
    7. What is your favourite color and why?
    8. What other language are you interested in learning?
    9. In your own view, what makes a good relationship?
    10. Do you find it easy to apologise when you are wrong?
    11. What is your favourite thing about blogging?

    My Nominees.

  • 15 negative things people said about my natural hair

    Hey guys, how are you all doing? I want to share some of the worst things people have said to me about my hair. I think most of us naturalistas have also heard the good, the bad and ugly things concerning our hair from friends, colleagues, coworkers, family etc especially when we just started out.

    I believe going or keeping natural hair should be your own decision and what others say or think about it shouldn’t bother you. I didn’t allow myself to be discouraged by the negative statements but it just made me dogmatic about my hair.

    1. If I were your boyfriend, I would have broken up with you because of your hair.
    2. I will buy a chemical relaxer for you, I think you can’t afford one.
    3. You will soon get tired of your natural hair.
    4. Your hair looks too untidy (because is not slicked down like relaxed hair)
    5. Those hairstyles (referring to bantu knots out, twist outs etc) you see online are sew in weaves, your hair can never be like that.
    6. Your hair won’t grow.
    7. Don’t you have money to go the salon?
    8. Is that an afro? That’s old school, people don’t do that anymore.
    9. Don’t come to my house with natural hair. (It was a joke though)
    10. Don’t ever wear your hair out, is not nice, always put on wigs or use extensions to braid or twist.
    11. Your hair looks weird.
    12. You need a lot of makeup to accentuate your look with that hair.
    13. You are only limited to styles like cornrows and African threading.
    14. Why are you using fruits and kitchen ingredients on your hair, is meant to be eaten.
    15. You are wasting your time, money and energy on that hair, is it worth it?

      What are the negative things you have heard about your hair? Have you ever felt discouraged because of what others think of your hair? Please drop your comments in the comment section. Thanks for reading

    1. 8 Amazing Benefits of Exfoliating.

      8 Amazing Benefits of Exfoliating.

      Most of us skip this important and expedient part of our skincare routine.Exfoliating shouldn’t be circumscript to the face but should be done all over the body.

      Exfoliation is the process of removing dead or dry skin cells from the skin. It has loads of benefit for our skin appearance and also helps with some skin conditions. 

      Dead skin cells should be exfoliated once or twice a week preferably with natural or home remedies for a beautiful smooth skin. With regular exfoliation, you seldomly need to wear makeup everyday and you feel more comfortable without worrying about dark spots, acne etc.

      Benefits of exfoliating.

      • Even skin tone: Hyperpigmentation makes a part of the skin appear darker than other parts. Exfoliating regularly, can remove all dark spots giving you an overall even skin tone.
      • Glowing skin: Exfoliation increase blood circulation to the skin making it look healthy and glowing..

      • Reduce clogged pores: Pores are the small opening in the skin, they can get clogged with oil, dirt and dead skin cells. You can reduce the clogged pores through exfoliation.
      • Removes blemishes and acne: Regular exfoliation can get rid of blemishes and acne on your face giving you a flawless skin.
      • Reduce wrinkles: Wrinkles which can also be as a result of dead skin cells can also be reduced with exfoliation.
      • Helps with dry skin: People with dry skin often get flakes on their skin, this can be easily removed by exfoliating.

      • Better shaving and prevent razor bumps: Exfoliating before shaving gives you a better shave and reduce risk of razor bumps.
      • Absorption: Skincare products get easily absorbed on the skin and works better with regular exfoliation.

        After exfoliating, use a natural moisturized such as shea butter, coconut oil, olive oil etc. Also do not expose your skin for long to sun rays after exfoliating for 24 hours. 

        I will soon write a post on how to exfoliate and best natural products for exfoliating. Thanks for reading and please share.

        Do you exfoliate? Do you know any other benefits of exfoliating? Pleae drop your comments in the comment box. Thanks.